
The goal is to try to turn a “lose-lose” into a “win-win.” What makes this possible is that, despite the current state, most couples ultimately want the same things- to be heard and happy and to do it together.
So, the goal of the first session is to help couples believe in the possibility of a third path. That they can change their relationship without changing their partner and in the process find both the relief and results that they seek.
Every couple has a unique story that starts with an exciting mix of attraction and adventure. But as relationships progress, they encounter the inevitable challenges that come with parenting, working, and aging. Love notes become to-do lists, cute rapport turns into cutting remarks, and intimacy fades.
If you’re left feeling stressed, struggling, or stuck- you aren’t alone. It can happen in every relationship, but we’re here to let you know that there are techniques and a process to help restore the positive and exciting mix back into your relationship!


Friction refers to ongoing unproductive conflict in a relationship. It could be escalated volatility, or ever-present bickering. Either way, it is like fireworks in a phone booth. It makes a lot of noise, the smoke never clears, and the dust never quite settles- before it pops off again. Our goal is to turn Friction into traction. To learn to disagree productively, so that instead of conflict being a force that drives a relationship apart it can be used to drive it forward.

Fracture is like lightning striking a tree. In seconds, what took years to grow and was once thought invincible is left splintered in pieces. This refers to a betrayal- most commonly thought of as sexual infidelity. It can also refer to emotional affairs and financial deception. Not only devastating, but the person who a partner would usually turn to for support is the cause. Our goal is to turn Fracture into manufacture. Pick up the pieces and build something new. The experience can be devastating and is without a doubt transformative. Yet, it does not have to be all bad or mean the end of the relationship.

Frost is like a glacial divide of cold distance and disconnection. This refers to when one or both partners become less communicative, withdrawn, or closed off. There becomes less involvement and inclusion in each other’s lives physically and emotionally. Couples often refer to this as feeling like they are roommates or just “orbiting” one another. It can lead to feelings of isolation and tension. There are few tragedies greater than feeling alone within a relationship. Our goal is go from Frost to blossom. To both thaw the ice and nurture the seeds of affection, mutual respect, and shared goals that lie underneath.

Framing is like building a house from the ground up. This refers to couples who choose to be proactive to use the raw materials to create the structure for a successful relationship. Pre-marital counseling typically fits into this category. Partners learn to develop the tools they need before they are forced to use them. Our goal is to go from Framing to maintaining by giving couples both the skills and the awareness to apply them. With this platform they have a process within the relationship to anticipate challenges and repair quickly and effectively when necessary.
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